Betrayal and grief
by Tim Klein
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The king was shaken. He went up to the room over the gateway and wept. As he went, he said: ‘O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you – O Absalom, my son, my son!’ (2 Samuel 18:33).
Read 2 Samuel 18:19–33
The saga of Absalom is over. Absalom and his lustrous locks lie in a stone-covered pit. The king, his father David, mourns for his death. ‘O Absalom, my son, my son.’
Given Absalom’s betrayal, why did David mourn with such grief? This son, a son whom he loved greatly, had conspired against him, attacked him and caused grief in the households of thousands of soldiers. Does he deserve the grief of his father?
Contrast this with the death of David’s son from Uriah, which we read in Monday’s devotion. The boy is dying, David is fasting and weeping, pleading with God to heal him. When the boy dies, David simply gets on with life. We don’t hear about any significant grief – nothing at all like his grief over the death of Absalom.
I am wondering if there is some crossover with Jesus’ thoughts when he said, ‘I tell you, in the same way, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous people who have no need of repentance’ (Luke 15:7).
It’s as if the boy, who was young and had done no evil against David, is not mourned because he is safe and saved. Whereas Absalom, on the other hand, has committed so much betrayal and violence that David is mourning his eternal loss.
There’s no easy way to explain this double-sided dealing from a human perspective. But what about from the Lord’s perspective? I’m still reflecting on this.
I’m caring for a dying man as I write this. He’s a man of faith. Yes, his family and I will mourn his death, but we will also celebrate and give thanks to God for his life – here and into eternity. God will welcome him safely home: Well done, good and faithful servant – enter!
God grant that our families and loved ones will mourn us, not with deep, explosive grief, but with certainty that we are safe and saved.
Father, we ask in Jesus’ name for a sure and certain faith and trust in you as we commit our loved ones into your keeping. Keep them in faith. Let their hope and ours rest in you. Amen.
Tim is a recently retired LCANZ pastor. He enjoys spending time with family, connecting with neighbours and gardening. This is the season of flowers: beautiful irises, anemones, proteas, leucodendrons and leucospermums – and roses! They all give witness to God’s glory and grace.
A monument to me!
by Tim Klein
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During his lifetime Absalom had taken a pillar and erected it in the King’s Valley as a monument to himself, for he thought, ‘I have no son to carry on the memory of my name.’ He named the pillar after himself, and it is called Absalom’s Monument to this day (2 Samuel 18:18).
Read 2 Samuel 18:1–18
Have you ever reflected on these questions: ‘What is my legacy?’ or ‘Who will remember me when I am gone?’
I have a beautiful wife, three children and 10 grandchildren. Will they be my everlasting legacy? I also have several ‘daffodil children’ – seedlings that I hybridised while living in New Zealand. Some are listed in the international daffodil registry. Will that be enough as an everlasting legacy? Or should I perhaps do an ‘Absalom’ and erect a pillar, a statue of myself to be seen by everyone who follows after me?
And then I remember the words of the funeral rite: ashes to ashes, dust to dust. From dust you came and to dust you shall return.
Ecclesiastes 1:2 tells us:
‘Meaningless! Meaningless!’ says the Teacher.
‘Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.’
How ironic that Absalom was buried in a stone-covered pit, despite his enduring pillar, his plotting, and his efforts to go to war with his father to take over the kingdom and the thousands of soldiers who died in that war.
Let’s not hand over our lives to anger and war. Instead, let’s seek peace and pursue it, using all we have to serve the Lord and each other. Our lasting monument is to be in Christ. Christ is the beginning and the end. In Christ we remain. His love, his mercy and his grace are the heartland of eternity at work in us now.
They will remember us for a while – but then we will be gone from this place, and they will remember us no more. When we live and move and have all our being in Christ, we are not ‘meaningless’. The best legacy we can leave is to be the living, loving, serving, gracious presence of Christ.
Father God, thank you for gathering us up into Jesus. Let our serving in his name, as his living presence, be our eternal legacy. We ask this in his name. Amen.
Tim is a recently retired LCANZ pastor. He enjoys spending time with family, connecting with neighbours and gardening. This is the season of flowers: beautiful irises, anemones, proteas, leucodendrons and leucospermums – and roses! They all give witness to God’s glory and grace.
Conspiracy!
by Tim Klein
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… Absalom would reach out his hand, take hold of him and kiss him. Absalom behaved in this way toward all the Israelites who came to the king asking for justice, and so he stole the hearts of the people of Israel (2 Samuel 15:5b,6).
Read 2 Samuel 15:1–16
A person once came to me and said they appreciated that I did not plot or connive for things – in other words, I played it straight. I was genuine. I received it as a compliment, for this person lived in a corporate world where ‘the game’ was played. That person’s world was about selectively placed influence and cultivated partnerships – saying the ‘right’ thing to the person who wanted to hear it. A far cry from Jesus’ ‘Let your yes be yes, and your no be no’ (Matthew 5:37a). Sadly, this also happens in the church.
In this story, Absalom has mastered the art of conspiracy and is gathering supporters against the king. Seemingly simple things, such as taking an interest in a person’s home location, taking a person’s hand warmly, giving a welcome kiss and promising assistance. Absolom painted himself as one who would do justice for those who perceived they had suffered injustice. He did this consistently over four years, cultivating favour.
Surely Absalom could not do this without his father knowing what was happening – even allowing it to continue. This shows David’s tolerance and love for his son. Perhaps he believed – even hoped – that Absalom had honourable intentions. However, we learn this is not the case as the story of conspiracy and betrayal unfolds.
Perhaps you have been in David’s position. What would you do? How would you act? Would you give such people the benefit of the doubt? Would you be prepared to continue loving them, forgiving them and caring for them?
We have every reason to thank the Lord for continuing to love and care for us despite our conspiracies of sin: when lip service belies our true feelings, when a smile disguises anger, and lies or even silence betray his truth.
Father God, we are so thankful that you continue to love us despite our consistent betrayal of you. Please renew and restore us to true and constant faith in you. Amen.
Tim is a recently retired LCANZ pastor. He enjoys spending time with family, connecting with neighbours and gardening. This is the season of flowers: beautiful irises, anemones, proteas, leucodendrons and leucospermums – and roses! They all give witness to God’s glory and grace.
God knows what’s inside us
by Tim Klein
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In all Israel there was not a man so highly praised for his handsome appearance as Absalom (2 Samuel 14:25a).
Read 2 Samuel 14:25–33
Here’s a song that had some sort of resonance with my younger self – or perhaps not, maybe?
Oh Lord, it’s hard to be humble
When you’re perfect in every way
I can’t wait to look in the mirror
I get better looking each day
Did you read about Absalom’s hair? Lustrous, luxurious locks. He cut it once a year, weighed it and valued it greatly. He was the golden boy of the kingdom with visions of the throne in mind. ‘From the top of his head to the sole of his foot there was no blemish in him’ (verse 25b).
I suspect when we look in the mirror, we are hoping to see something like that – rather than our lost and wrinkled dreams.
The blemish we can’t see is the mess inside – sin’s blemish, and it can’t be hidden. It will emerge.
Under the physical beauty, Absalom seethed against his half-brother, who had raped his sister, ultimately having him killed. Absalom’s rage against his father, David, led him to plot David’s downfall so that he could seize the Kingdom of Israel. (More to come in the following devotions.)
While at war with David, Absalom suffered a tragic death. Ironically, it was his beautiful hair that tangled in the branches of a tree, suspending him where he died at the hands of Joab, a general of David’s army.
Despite all that Absalom had done, David mourned his death. He was heartbroken for the son who tried to kill him and steal his throne. You can read more of Absalom’s story in chapters 13 to 18 of 2 Samuel.
How amazing that David could still love this son of his, whose anger had led him to war against his father. Finally, it was Solomon (Jedidiah), another of David’s sons, who became king of Israel.
We are children of the King – our King Jesus! Give thanks that he looks beneath our surface, recognises the blemishes of sin in our lives and still loves us.
O give thanks to the Lord, for he is good – his love is everlasting.
Father God, we are humbled by your love. Thank you for your mercy and grace that forgives sin’s stain in our lives and keeps us in your kingdom. Amen.
Tim is a recently retired LCANZ pastor. He enjoys spending time with family, connecting with neighbours and gardening. This is the season of flowers: beautiful irises, anemones, proteas, leucodendrons and leucospermums – and roses! They all give witness to God’s glory and grace.
Where there’s death, there’s hope
by Tim Klein
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Why are you acting this way? While the child was alive, you fasted and wept, but now that the child is dead, you get up and eat! (2 Samuel 12:21)
Read 2 Samuel 12:15–31
From time to time, we use the phrase ‘Where there’s life, there’s hope.’
But it seems the Lord has other ways of dealing with life, death and hope. Here in today’s word, where there’s death, there’s hope!
While David’s son, born to Uriah’s wife, lies dying, David is fasting and pleading with the Lord for his life. He had hope that the Lord would rescue this child from death. When the child finally dies, David, instead of entering into mourning, gets on with life. Life continues with a new hope, a new way ahead. Solomon, David’s son from Bathsheba, is born. He is also named Jedidiah. This name, given by the Lord through the prophet Nathan, means ‘beloved by the Lord’.
So we have this situation where, while the child from Uriah’s wife is dying, David has hope, and when the child dies, it’s not the end! A new hope emerges: new life, new plans.
That’s how it can be with life and death among us. There’s always something dying – life ebbs away in so many ways. Yet the Lord, with grace and mercy, will be at work doing new things. He says it in Revelation 21:5: ‘He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!”’
You could consider some of the things that are dying or broken around you right now. Death is there: from a loved one dying to church decisions with which we disagree to international losses and griefs. In any of these sorts of situations, would you also consider this as true, that while there’s death, there’s hope? Hope for new life, for something new. Hope for the present and future.
Jesus’ death is the death that gives us hope in the middle of our sin and related struggles. In Robin Mann’s song ‘May We Be One’ comes this wonderful truth: ‘Dying our death he restores our life; heaven has begun, he makes us one!’
God of the living and the dead: through Jesus, fill us with new hope every day, even in the face of our dying. Amen.
Tim is a recently retired LCANZ pastor. He enjoys spending time with family, connecting with neighbours and gardening. This is the season of flowers: beautiful irises, anemones, proteas, leucodendrons and leucospermums – and roses! They all give witness to God’s glory and grace.
Living in eternity
by Tim Klein
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He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for to him all are alive (Luke 20:38).
Read Luke 20:27–38
What an irony, and we can be sure this is not lost on Jesus. Here in Luke 20, the Sadducees, who do not believe in resurrection, ask Jesus a question as if they did believe in resurrection. They are, once again, trying to trap Jesus, and he knows it. Yet Jesus gave them a serious answer: ‘He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for to him all are alive.’ Where do they go with that eternal wisdom?
And now to us.
We confess in the creeds that we believe in the resurrection of the dead. What Jesus says is significant for us. He calls us ‘children of the resurrection’ (verse 36). He also calls us ‘people of this age’ who marry and are given in marriage (verse 34). As children of the resurrection, we belong to both ages. We live in the context of eternity. We are people of the age to come, where the Lord’s surpassing riches of grace will be fully revealed (Ephesians 2:7). In our brokenness, we live in this hope.
By God’s grace, I am the husband of one wife – but in this age, that could be another story completely (as the Sadducees described). We all know people to whom God has extended grace and gifted a new partner in life.
We all live with the brokenness of sin and its consequences.
To him, even after we die, we are all alive. In the meantime, we all rely on the never-ending mercy and grace of God. Jesus’ death was for you and me. His resurrection informs us that his sacrifice has paid the price for our sinfulness. He forgives – he lives. His life assures us of life as children of resurrection: here and now, and into eternity.
Because he lives, I can face tomorrow,
Because he lives, all fear is gone;
Because I know he holds the future,
And life is worth the living, just because he lives.
–Because he lives by William and Gloria Gaither, 1971, Gaither Music Company
Father, in Jesus’ name, I praise you for all you have done. Keep my eyes fixed on you. Keep hope alive – even when I am caught up in sin. Thank you for your mercy and grace and for the new things you are doing in my life. Amen.
Tim is a recently retired LCANZ pastor. He enjoys spending time with family, connecting with neighbours and gardening. This is the season of flowers: beautiful irises, anemones, proteas, leucodendrons and leucospermums – and roses! They all give witness to God’s glory and grace.
Steadfast feet on ‘the Way’
by Maria Rudolph
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My steps have held to your paths, my feet have not slipped (Psalm 17:5).
Read Psalm 17:1–9
There are many great African spirituals that sing of steadfast feet on the path of Jesus: ‘We are marching in the light of God; we are marching in the light of God …’ Or how about this one: ‘It is a great thing to love Jesus, it is a great thing to love Jesus, it is a great thing to love Jesus, walking in the light of God. Walk, walk, walk, walk, walking in the light …’ If either of these songs gets stuck in your head this Saturday, praise the Lord!
In Psalm 119:105, we read, ‘Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path.’ Psalm 121, a pilgrimage song, contains the words, ‘He will not let your foot slip – he who watches over you will not slumber … The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.’
The first Christians were known as followers of ‘the Way’. What a great joy it is for us, too, to be followers of the Way, the Truth and the Life (John 14:6). The Apostle Paul remarked:
Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can they preach unless they are sent? As it is written: ‘How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news! (Romans 10:13–15)
Dear Lord, give me beautiful feet that bring the good news wherever I go. May the feet of God walk with me and his hand hold me tight wherever I go. Light of the World, illuminate your path before me so I do not stray to the right or to the left. Grant me steadfast feet on the Way. Amen.
Pastor Maria serves at St John’s Lutheran Church Perth in Western Australia. She is blessed with her pastor husband, Michael, who serves at Concordia Lutheran Church, Duncraig. With God’s help, they navigate ministry across two parishes and life at home with two beautiful primary-school-aged kids and one amazing high schooler. Pastor Maria also serves the Lutheran Church on the Commission on Theology and Inter-Church Relations.
Have mercy on me
by Maria Rudolph
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The poor man had nothing except one little ewe lamb he had bought … It shared his food, drank from his cup and even slept in his arms. It was like a daughter to him (2 Samuel 12:3).
Read 2 Samuel 12:1–14
Formerly a shepherd boy, King David is confronted with a parable about a beloved lamb being slaughtered unjustly in his darkest hour of sin. Nathan the prophet exposed his sin, adultery, deceit and murder. David would have felt the sting of this story acutely.
Psalm 51 flows out of David’s quill straight after that shocking visit from the prophet Nathan: ‘For the director of music. A psalm of David. When the prophet Nathan came to him after David had committed adultery with Bathsheba.’
We draw some of our Lutheran liturgy straight from that psalm:
Against you, you alone, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight. Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me. O Lord, open my lips, and my mouth will declare your praise (Psalm 51:4,10–12,15).
David was no stranger to sin, and neither are we. David knew that there was only one Good Shepherd who would make the sheep lie down in green pastures and help them not fear even in the valley of the shadow of death. Ultimately, from the line of David, Jesus would be born, only to lay down his life as the sacrificial lamb for the sins of the world.
Cling on to Jesus today. His grace and redemption are bigger than your sins. Hand each of them over to Jesus, one by one. Join David in praying Psalm 51 in repentance, asking God to have mercy on you. For the sake of Jesus, you are restored, you are redeemed, and your sins are forgiven.
Read Psalm 51 and then pray this prayer:
Thank you, merciful God! I can breathe again. You have redeemed me. You have washed me in your blood, and I have come out whiter than snow. Through the waters of baptism, your mercies are new every morning, great is your faithfulness! Thank you for forgiving and loving me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pastor Maria serves at St John’s Lutheran Church Perth in Western Australia. She is blessed with her pastor husband, Michael, who serves at Concordia Lutheran Church, Duncraig. With God’s help, they navigate ministry across two parishes and life at home with two beautiful primary-school-aged kids and one amazing high schooler. Pastor Maria also serves the Lutheran Church on the Commission on Theology and Inter-Church Relations.
Restlessness
by Maria Rudolph
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One evening, David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roof, he saw a woman bathing. The woman was very beautiful (2 Samuel 11:2).
Read2 Samuel 11:1–27
King David had it all. A big palace. More than one wife. Riches. A nation at his feet. Success in battle. A good relationship with God. But somehow, David was restless.
This restlessness sent him roaming around on the roof of his palace in the middle of the night, which eventually led to adultery, deceit and murder. A slippery slope of sin begins for David. How did he go from beloved king to murderer of loyal Uriah? A mere moment of restlessness turned into a sinful thought, then into an action, and finally into deeper darkness.
All big things in our lives, and in the world, start with one small thought that turns into a small act, which then grows into a bigger and bigger thing.
This applies to bad, dark, sinful things and good, life-giving, godly things.
Paul gives great advice to the Christians in Ephesus when he says, ‘Do not give the devil a foothold’ (Ephesians 4:27). No matter how blessed we are at any given time, we are all prone to restlessness occasionally, either in real life or as we watch TV or spend time on the internet. Our eyes wander. Our minds might too. And just like that, we can find ourselves entangled in sin if we are not careful.
Paul instructs us to ‘put off [our] old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of our minds … Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you’ (Ephesians 4:22,23,32).
Loving God, make me new. Restore me and cleanse me from within. Remind me of my baptism. In my times of restlessness, let my mind safely rest in you and in your goodness. Draw my wandering eyes back to you and your glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pastor Maria serves at St John’s Lutheran Church Perth in Western Australia. She is blessed with her pastor husband, Michael, who serves at Concordia Lutheran Church, Duncraig. With God’s help, they navigate ministry across two parishes and life at home with two beautiful primary-school-aged kids and one amazing high schooler. Pastor Maria also serves the Lutheran Church on the Commission on Theology and Inter-Church Relations.